Archive for the ‘Motivation’ Category

Listening Skills: It’s About Effectiveness, Not Ego

Sunday, April 17th, 2011

Have you ever heard someone saying, “He listens too much”?

I haven’t!

However, I’m sure, like me, you have often heard the remark, “He talks too much.”

You must be thinking, “What is the relevance for me?”

When you are an individual contributor, you end up listening a lot to high-ranking folks, right?

You are the manager now,

You might be thinking it’s my turn to do the talking. Please don’t make the same mistake which your managers made.

Now, listening becomes even more important for you

Your success depends on your ability to listen to your employees and bosses alike. Tuning out can prove expensive.

Here are some useful tips, which can put you on the fast track, only if you remember to practice them

  • If you’re on the phone make sure to take notes. Instead of writing sentences just write one keyword that represents the main point. This keyword will help you to remember the topic.
  • Differentiate between 911 and 411 calls. It is a common practice for your employees to make their work look more urgent than any other work. You can only recognize the seriousness of the issue by listening well.
  • Try to listen for understanding rather than for agreement. Don’t shut down mentally if someone disagrees with you.
  • Irrespective of the conversation, attempt to get at least one new insight from every speaker. If you can’t, you’re wasting your time.

Place a reminder on your desk

Listening is a hard job – talking is far easier than listening. You cannot afford to fall into the trap of listening to your own voice.

Have you ever heard someone saying, “He listens too much”?

May be it’s YOU!

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Employee Motivation through Inspired Leadership

Monday, April 5th, 2010
  • He is born in 1929, Atlanta, Georgia.
  • In 1934 the young boy has his first experience with racial discrimination, when he is refused to play with the white children by their parents.
  • In 1953 at 24 years he marries a woman of uncommon intellect and artistic gifts. He is a graduate from Boston University School of theology. He receives his doctorate in systematic theology.
  • 1956, his house is bombed. He is instrumental in forming the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. He is responsible for creating a group to fight against segregation.
  • In 1958 he is nearly killed by a female assailant who stabs him in the chest.

You must be wondering how this story is linked to employee motivation

  • In 1959 he travels to India to study the philosophy of Mohandas Gandhi. He lives in his ashram and then returns to the US with a better understanding of Gandhi’s philosophy of radical change through non violence.
  • In 1963 he organizes protests and marches to bring basic human rights to African Americans.
  • In 1963 he makes a historic speech – “I Have a Dream” speech.
  • In 1964 he wins the noble prize.
  • In 1968 he addresses a joyous crowd of supporters, the next morning he is assassinated on a motel balcony.

Whom are we talking about?

We are talking about inspired leadership. We are talking about a Civil Right Activist – “Free at last, Free at last. Thank God almighty, we are free at last.”

We are talking about the faith of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

He saw an opportunity to transform a society from repression to one defined by liberty and justice for all. If you ever wonder about the source of his inspiration, try to watch the film on the speech he gave. His speech has riveted generations of listeners. Half way in the speech, king leaves his scripted speech and goes into an improvisation that is one of the greatest moments in oratorical history. It’s the power of his sheer magic. With his words he carried the crowd with him to the mountain top so that each could see what he had seen.

Employee motivation is linked to inspiration – such heroes inspire and motivate us with their vision

They make us see what we cannot see. They become leaders by dreaming things other people are afraid to dream.

Another tool for employee motivation – narrate such inspiring stories to your employees

Who knows when a word or a thought may trigger a change of attitude or a change in behavior? Leaders are great teachers, only if we are prepared to learn.

Employee motivation is linked to leaders who inspire us by their actions

Employees are more motivated and are loyal and supportive with inspired leadership.  In nearly every business there are occasions when the manager must defend his or her people form criticism or attack by others. It is on those occasions that leadership replaces management. The leaders will defend his or her own people and will take full responsibility for the criticism. Such inspirational stories about great leaders of the world help us. Every time I read about such great figures, I am humbled and start reflecting on my employee motivation techniques…

Take away point on Employee Motivation: A leader becomes a leader with a vision. Show them what they cannot see and then inspire them with your actions.

Leadership, Leadership Development, Motivation, Team Work – All sounds too Mumbo Jumbo? (Part 3)

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

The Team -Team work’ is a phase susceptible to over-use and abuse in the workspace. A true measure of the effectiveness of team work is when you leave the team environment for a time and on your return find that things are running as smoothly as when you left. To develop value within a team, consider three areas:

  • Make the team feel like a team

Unless you include everyone equally in the day to day running of the team, favoritism, alienation and a lack of respect will develop. By letting the individuals see that you are a supporter and protector of the team. An effective vehicle to encourage this is a team briefing where everyone can get involved.

  • Make the team think like a team

Choosing the right medium to communicate to the team is important. Memos, letters and the telephone can often be seen as distancing you from the team. Regular team briefings can open a two-way channel of communication.

  • Make the team work like a team

Often as the size of department grows, jobs and sections of a team can become isolated and fragmented. Your job as a manager is to use your leadership skills to get everyone involved in the work place. Being enthusiastic about an individual’s input is important as it will encourage him to help others, and in so doing work together as a team.

Motivation when balanced with organizing skills will equal leadership

This will allow efficiency in completing daily routines and crisis management. However, leadership is not just organizing, it involves humanity, the human element; as a manager you require both if you are to lead and motivate your team.

Leadership, Leadership Development, Motivation, Team Work – All sounds too Mumbo Jumbo? (Part 1)

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

Leadership is a combination of organizing and motivating. The confidence which is given by the manager to his team can be developed by giving value to:

  1. Their job
  2. Them as individuals
  3. Them as a team

The Job – As a manager it is important for you to maintain the motivation within the department. To do this, three aspects of the job need to be taken into consideration:

Context: All too often people are told to get on with daily tasks in their jobs without being given a reason for completing them. The end result is “telling” rather than ‘selling’ atmosphere generated by the manager. You must be able to carry people along by allowing them to understand the context of the job and where it fits into the organization. This will stimulate interest and initiative from the individual.

Example: ‘Leading by example’ is an everyday cliché, but it has merit. Team members will view you as an example to emulate and therefore, you must set a positive example and approach to all aspects of work.

Importance: A good leader will let people know how important their work is, and recognize the importance of that work. Regardless of how ‘low profile’ or ‘high profile’ the job is, emphasis of importance must be offered to the owners of the job, if they are to remain motivated.

In the subsequent posts, we shall dilate on the other two categories mentioned above.

Flexible or Stubborn?

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

How far can you travel along the road to success without courage?

I refer not to the physical courage, but to the rarer phenomenon of moral courage.

This quality has nothing to do with mere stubbornness,

which is almost a type of cowardice. Many weaknesses derive from an attitude of stubbornness. For this attitude of mind, stupidity is a better word than stubbornness, and definitely better one than courage.

 

On the other hand,

cowardice can also be a readiness for compromise. To the compromising mind, the certainty of half a loaf is always better than the probability of a whole one. You need to avoid the rigidity of a standpoint that stamps mule on your forehead. The mind must be receptive and elastic.

You may exclaim, “In the same breath you are giving me conflicting signals about rigidity and pliability!”

It is the old question: How can you combine firmness with adaptability to the circumstances? There is no answer except that the two qualities must run concurrently in the mind. One must be responsive to the circumstances and yet faithful to one’s own instincts.

The flexible and firm mind will best grapple with unusual circumstances; then it will invent ways to face each new phase of the situation.

So what does all this translate into?

Firmness that is not obstinacy, health that is not a fad, adaptability that is not weakness, enterprise that is not rashness — these are the qualities that will preserve you in difficult times, when the chips are down and you are up against the wall. Think about it!

How do you Keep Your Engine Running?

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

Recently I conducted a five-day corporate leadership program. It was a good program, but groaned with over-weight handouts and endless debates.

Tim, a participant in the program,

had a remarkable ability to get along with the other students. There was no doubt that sales and marketing was his chosen métier. He asked thought provoking and interesting questions.

But why was Tim not looking convinced?

May be I had challenged the administration of his incentive and reward system. Towards the end of the day, he came to thank me for the session, but tactfully conveyed that there was not much to take home that day.

Therefore, we decided to chat one to one

I shared with him that even after many years of teaching and training, I still have one unanswered question – “How do we motivate staff?” the psychology of motivation is not only complex but also unending. There is no set formula for motivation or leadership. There is no secret code. These training sessions are heuristic in nature and bombard your cognitive abilities to find a solution in light of the new awareness.

Every model and motivation theory has in it the seeds of destruction and rejuvenation.

 May be Tim was taken aback when

I commented that his motivation style resembled “KITA.”

So what is KITA?

Coined by Fredrick Herzberg, KITA stands for “Kick in the A…” In other words, KITA means – a kick in the pants. There are two kinds of KITA:

Negative KITA:

Action generated out of psychological fear, i.e. getting movement but not motivation. The person may do the necessary tasks, but need not be intrinsically motivated. Movement is a function of fear of punishment. It is no different from animal training. Movement requires constant reinforcement and stresses short-term results.

Positive KITA:

What if, I say, “If you do this for me or the company, and in return I will suitably reward you? Do you think I am motivating you? You might say YES.

Think about it again!

Whenever I ask this question during training sessions, there is always a unanimous judgment that positive KITA is motivation. I reckon, recognizing these distinctions is an important step in the process of truly motivating any force of people organized to accomplish a task.

Punished by rewards

Alfie Kohn has written extensively on this topic in his book –“Punished by Rewards.” In my opinion, it is a good resource for every manager, teacher, and parent.

Herzberg calls Negative KITA as RAPE and Positive KITA as SEDUCTION

Which do you think is better or worse? According to Herzberg, seduction is worse than rape.

Why?

Because rape is an unfortunate happening, while seduction suggests you are a party to the crime. Because of this inadequate understanding of positive KITA, the manager does not have to kick you, but you kick yourself.

Herzberg performed studies to determine

which factors in employee’s work environment caused satisfaction or dissatisfaction. He authored his findings in the book “The motivation to work.” Herzberg separated factors into “hygiene” and “motivation.”

Hygiene factors are

those that do not lead to motivation, but without these factors, there is distinct dissatisfaction with the job. Examples of hygiene factors are company policy, supervision, work conditions, and salary.

Motivation factors are

Achievement, Recognition, Work itself, Responsibility, Advancement, Growth.

The factors responsible for job satisfaction are different from the factors that lead to job dissatisfaction.

What is the opposite of Job satisfaction?

If you answered – Job Dissatisfaction, then you are wrong.

The right answer is No Job Satisfaction.

 

What is the opposite of Job Dissatisfaction?

If you answered – Job Satisfaction, then you are wrong.

The right answer is No Job Dissatisfaction

Remember:

Since the factors causing satisfaction are different from those causing dissatisfaction, therefore you cannot equate the two feelings.

Tim looked somewhat convinced…

I left him with a thought from an article by Dr. Frederick Hertzberg published in Harvard Business Review.

“If you get a bonus of $ 500 in the first year and $ 250 the second year, you are getting extra rewards each year, but psychologically you may think you have taken a cut of $250?”

Right!

But?

If you make a big accomplishment by writing a thesis followed by a small or lesser accomplishment by writing an article, psychologically you do not feel you have taken a cut.

Why?

Because the ultimate reward in motivation is personal growth, and its pay back period is over a long time. You do not need to be incrementally rewarded to keep your engine running.

What have you done lately to keep your engine running!

Choose Your Associates Wisely

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

He who walks with the wise shall become wise. He who walks with a fool shall be destroyed. A companion of a fool shall perish. In other words, who you choose to associate with can make or break you life or career.

Therefore, you should be careful about who you associate with in any significant way. Always look at the person’s wisdom and integrity. If you see any warning signs of dishonesty, don’t ignore them. Look at their priorities and value system? Make sure you don’t become the companion of fools. Being prudent is a choice you make every time you face an important decision in any area of your life.